When you're approaching a girl
for the first time what do you do?, asking out a pretty girl for the first time
can be nerve-wracking at times. I've had to hang back from talking too much
because I didn't want her to think I was a creep.
To be honest with you it’s not easy talking to
a hot girl for the first time.
In this post, we” re going to look at how best
to approach a girl when you haven't spoken to her before especially if she
appears to be smart and pretty so read on because it isn't rocket science.
Follow the tips I outline below to get you started.
11. Don't be scared of being rejected.
you've noticed her but what do
you do, you're at a party and you see a girl you'd like to talk to and the
first thing that comes to my mind is should I approach her?
If she isn't interested in me then there's
nothing I can do about it but if she is interested how should I approach her. It’s
important to know how to approach a pretty girl for the first time.
A lot of people say that it’s not
about getting rejected but about being rejected. The only way for us to get
better at something is by practicing it over and over again until we get good
at it.
We need to practice approaching pretty girls
until we feel more confident in ourselves when doing this.
2. Be Confident.
Being confident is not being
proud, most pretty women hate guys who are proud just make sure you don't sound
like an arrogant kind of person but be confident enough so that she knows what
kind of guy she’s dealing with, no need for her to think that you're out of
your mind or something like that.
3. Say Something To Get Her Attention.
Start by greeting her and say something like,
“hello pretty girl how are you doing today”, with that you have been able to
attract her attention.
And if you are driving and see
her walking along the road that’s your opportunity to declare your intentions
but make sure you are very polite and calm with your approach because the first
impression matters a lot.
Get a conversation started by
asking her a question about herself, and try not to get exhausted with words
throughout the conversation, also, try to ask her questions about her studies,
career, hobbies, etc.
These will make the conversation
enjoyable and in the process, she will become freer to talk with you thereby
giving you the opportunity let your intentions known to her.
Also, read this post on how to tell a girl you want a relationship with her.
4. Make Sure You Don't Hover
Around Her for Too Long.
Because things might get worse when there is
too much familiarity.
Is it the first time in your life that you'll
be talking to a girl and she is beautiful? It might not be easy for you
especially if you are a shy type, just keep in mind a man dies once and she
might even be interested in you as well without you knowing, just go ahead and “let
the cat out of the bag”.
5. There are two ways to approach a pretty girl.
The first way is the most obvious and
time-tested. You walk up to her say hey and then tell her how cute she is this
is the most basic approach you can use and it works for almost every woman.
it might not work every time but it works most
of the time the second way is a little more complicated but much more effective
in the long run.
Instead of just saying hey you, rather smile
at her and ask if she’s busy if she answers yes then you say “oh I'm looking
for someone to talk to”, or some similar line that will get her interested in
talking to you.
If she answers no then you ask if she has any
idea where else people hang out around here? if she says no again then this is
your big chance ask if there's anywhere else nearby that people go when they
want to meet friends or talk about things like sports or politics.
This should get her excited
enough so that she’ll agree to meet you somewhere public later on.
Note: You can approach a pretty
girl with confidence if you follow these steps and remember that all girls are
human just like you are even if they're pretty.
Conclusion.
The best advice I could give you is to just be
yourself, be honest with the girl and let her know that you'd like to get to
know her better.
Don't come on too strong, but let her know
that you love her. If she seems at all interested too that is your green light
to ask for her number and maybe even suggest getting together sometime soon.
Please, do well to drop your
questions and suggestions below.